Give space and let things settle. Everything needs time to settle, to dissolve, to unwind. Don’t overwhelm yourself with too much. Let there be spaces in your “schedule”. Not everything needs to be filled up, filled out.
Release yourself from the grip of conceptualizing others, worrying about them, keeping others in your head. Forget about everyone and everything including spirituality and your “path”.
Forget about relationships and where things stand. Forget about making ends meet and “managing” everything, trying to make everything fit into the idea of what you want to do. Leave things open, unattended, open-ended, undefined.
Leave things open, unattended, open-ended, undefined.
Let things come to you, instead of chasing them. Let change take care of change without your interference. Acknowledge the rawness of where you are and bow down to it with love and reverence. Don’t think it a mistake or make it wrong.
This unraveling is no small thing. It may not look like that for others, but you only know what you’re experiencing. Trust that you’re doing your best.